My DH is not actually lazy but he only does certain household tasks and never does others. He never changes the bedding, hoovers the floors, does any cooking, cleans the bathroom or kitchen. He does the majority of certain jobs - ironing, bins, dishwasher and we equally share laundry. I am sick to death of him not sharing certain tasks - particularly the cooking as it is a daily task. I can't not cook because we have a disabled and fully dependent teenage daughter who needs to be fed. We also have another teenager who is a royal lazy ass despite being fully able bodied and capable. I am pregnant and bloody tired and sick to death of having to cook when DH is at home for 2 weeks over Christmas. Dh does work full time outside of the home and I am a sahm / carer for disabled daughter. I don't mind doing all of the cooking when DH is at work but I really resent having to do it when he is off work. I have been grumpy about this all day, pregnancy hormones are not helping, and I have now told him that I fed up with it and as a result we are barely speaking. I am considering giving disabled daughter some of the leftovers from tonight's meal for her dinner tomorrow (there is plenty) and leaving DH and our other teenager to sort themselves. Is it wrong that I expect to share cooking duties when DH and teenagers are off work and school?
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