Together 8 years, 2 small dc
Has pretty much been EA since first dc was born. Everything is always my fault, and I make him behave that way....if only I wasn't so fucking annoying then he wouldn't have to shout you know? Have been isolated from family and friends.
Have finally had enough, and the thought of having another Christmas like this one has had me in tears numerous times over the weekend. He's catching on that I've had enough because he's turning it all round to how horrid I am to him, and that I speak to him like shit (I do tell him I am only responding in the way I am being talked too - he grumped/moaned/griped 12 times before Christmas dinner, I counted), so he's the victim.
But I'm terrified to tell him that I want a divorce. I almost want to get my mum to come and be in the house when I do it. I have alluded to her the current situation. How do I even start the conversation?
He's been married and divorced before. It was all his ex wifes fault apparently but I suspect very much now that it wasn't.
The fear is in a strange way a welcome emotion because I have pretty much felt numb for months and months
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Scared to tell my husband I want a divorce
sodonesooverit · 26/12/2016 22:38
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