Talk

Flip

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Relationships

Separation

4 replies

Fedup145 · 26/12/2016 20:35

Yesterday was great, today's not been great and I think within a heated discussion we have decided to sell up and go our separate ways. H has gone out, said before he left that we need to sort finances and just get on with things. I don't know what to think, what to say, what to do, who to phone, just feeling completely empty. I just don't understand how it can go from yesterday to today.

OP posts:

Report

OohhThatsMe · 26/12/2016 20:42

How did that happen, then? What was the heated discussion about? And had he been OK in the run up to Christmas? Do you have children together?

Report

heyday · 26/12/2016 22:38

You need to try and sit down tomorrow and have an honest discussion. Was this a case of just flying off the handle or a genuine feeling that you both need to separate. Only once you have had that discussion can you begin to try and forge a way forward into unchartered territory perhaps. I hope that tomorrow brings some answers, even if it's not you want to hear you do need to know the truth.

Report

Fedup145 · 27/12/2016 08:47

For me a heated discussion, h said some horrible things so going to become that, for him more serious I think. He has gone away today to visit family, we have kids but not together, still my DS's home though. I've had hardly any sleep, will think about things all day and feel no better.

OP posts:

Report

Fedup145 · 27/12/2016 23:51

He won't talk, just walks past me, glares and then moves to another room. I have no where I can go. I'm broken inside, I can't get him to talk, he refuses to say anything