My poor, poor children !! That bitch!!

[babushka2012]

I was rung up on Xmas eve by the women my husband had an affair with and who has harassed me and texted the most disgusting things about my autistic son!
Although she put the phone down me, my husband had to admit that he's made her pregnant (she's a Filipino bar girl in Manila) by "accident" and she was ringing on Xmas eve to tell me and ruin our Christmas.
My children (teens) were led to believe that Daddy was no longer with this nutter but now he says he is but the baby wasn't "his fault" .
We are half way through divorce but I'm so absolutely broken hearted for my children who are going to find out this information. 6 months ago they had to find out that their dad is a cross dresser!!! My life !!! Arrgghhhh!!!!!!!!
How can I help my kids when he tells them? I'm dying inside with the knowledge. Should I tell them myself?? HELP!!

[RunRabbitRunRabbit]

Why would your children be broken hearted?

They get a new sibling. Rather nice.

I see why you are broken hearted, but them? Meh.

[LiviaDrusillaAugusta]

Bitch? Really

She AND your DH are responsible for this and I'm afraid you will have to get used to it as the child will be related to your children

[FlissMumsnet]

Thanks to all for your reports, we're taking a look behind the scenes

[bloodymaria]

It's all go on here tonight! Poor HQ.

[WellErrr]

I think it's mainly his fault.

[LiviaDrusillaAugusta]

Glad I'm not the only one who reported

[WellErrr]

Cross-reported there Fliss!

[babushka2012]

Sorry, I missed the bit out about her getting pregnant to snare him for his money. On one occasion they split, she found my number and rang to say "he has no money! You can have him back"!!!!

[scottishdiem]

Oooohhhhh. Breakup Buzzword Bingo.......

[OohhThatsMe]

Blimey!

[KatieScarlett]

Wow.

[Kittencatkins123]

Hmmm, is it so great that their dad has had a child with a woman who has abused their mum/them?!?!?

I would try to process this yourself before you talk to your children about it - talk to family and friends about how best to handle it. You need to be calm so you don't stress them out and as neutral about the situation as possible.

[pleasestopsnoring]

What a bizarre situation, sounds stressful

[Thattimeofyearagain]

Oh dear 😞

[Iggity]

Women? There was more than one of them on the phone?

[JeNeSuisPasVotreMiel]

Schools don't go back for a week or more yet...

[StiickEmUp]

[TrippyMcTrapFace]

Apparently a lot of people are finding the Christmas break rather boring....

[TrippyMcTrapFace]

Iggity

[HerChristmasFattyness]

[ShadowMane]

Hahah trippy

[LiviaDrusillaAugusta]

Oh now OP - that last post was a little too far..... the essence of making shit up is not to go too dramatic

[StrangeLookingParasite]

Why would your children be broken hearted?

They get a new sibling. Rather nice.

Oh, what?

[hippyhippyshake]

Are we sure this isn't a film plot? Or a book?

[FedUpWithBriiiiiick]

Nope!