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My poor, poor children !! That bitch!!

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babushka2012 Mon 26-Dec-16 20:16:43

I was rung up on Xmas eve by the women my husband had an affair with and who has harassed me and texted the most disgusting things about my autistic son!
Although she put the phone down me, my husband had to admit that he's made her pregnant (she's a Filipino bar girl in Manila) by "accident" and she was ringing on Xmas eve to tell me and ruin our Christmas.
My children (teens) were led to believe that Daddy was no longer with this nutter but now he says he is but the baby wasn't "his fault" .
We are half way through divorce but I'm so absolutely broken hearted for my children who are going to find out this information. 6 months ago they had to find out that their dad is a cross dresser!!! My life !!! Arrgghhhh!!!!!!!!
How can I help my kids when he tells them? I'm dying inside with the knowledge. Should I tell them myself?? HELP!!

RunRabbitRunRabbit Mon 26-Dec-16 20:19:32

Why would your children be broken hearted?

They get a new sibling. Rather nice.

I see why you are broken hearted, but them? Meh.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta Mon 26-Dec-16 20:20:36

Bitch? Really hmm

She AND your DH are responsible for this and I'm afraid you will have to get used to it as the child will be related to your children

FlissMumsnet (MNHQ) Mon 26-Dec-16 20:20:58

Thanks to all for your reports, we're taking a look behind the scenes

bloodymaria Mon 26-Dec-16 20:21:39

It's all go on here tonight! Poor HQ.

WellErrr Mon 26-Dec-16 20:21:53

I think it's mainly his fault.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta Mon 26-Dec-16 20:22:10

Glad I'm not the only one who reported grin

WellErrr Mon 26-Dec-16 20:22:25

Cross-reported there Fliss!

babushka2012 Mon 26-Dec-16 20:23:37

Sorry, I missed the bit out about her getting pregnant to snare him for his money. On one occasion they split, she found my number and rang to say "he has no money! You can have him back"!!!!

scottishdiem Mon 26-Dec-16 20:23:58

Oooohhhhh. Breakup Buzzword Bingo.......

OohhThatsMe Mon 26-Dec-16 20:25:20

Blimey!

KatieScarlett Mon 26-Dec-16 20:26:29

Wow.

Kittencatkins123 Mon 26-Dec-16 20:26:32

Hmmm, is it so great that their dad has had a child with a woman who has abused their mum/them?!?!?

I would try to process this yourself before you talk to your children about it - talk to family and friends about how best to handle it. You need to be calm so you don't stress them out and as neutral about the situation as possible.

pleasestopsnoring Mon 26-Dec-16 20:27:53

What a bizarre situation, sounds stressful

Thattimeofyearagain Mon 26-Dec-16 20:28:35

Oh dear 😞

Iggity Mon 26-Dec-16 20:28:45

Women? There was more than one of them on the phone?

JeNeSuisPasVotreMiel Mon 26-Dec-16 20:29:32

Schools don't go back for a week or more yet...

StiickEmUp Mon 26-Dec-16 20:31:13

hmm

TrippyMcTrapFace Mon 26-Dec-16 20:35:00

hmm

Apparently a lot of people are finding the Christmas break rather boring....

TrippyMcTrapFace Mon 26-Dec-16 20:36:25

grin Iggity

HerChristmasFattyness Mon 26-Dec-16 20:36:31

confused

ShadowMane Mon 26-Dec-16 20:36:52

Hahah trippy

LiviaDrusillaAugusta Mon 26-Dec-16 20:37:13

Oh now OP - that last post was a little too far..... the essence of making shit up is not to go too dramatic grin

StrangeLookingParasite Mon 26-Dec-16 20:37:35

Why would your children be broken hearted?

They get a new sibling. Rather nice.

Oh, what?

hippyhippyshake Mon 26-Dec-16 20:39:19

Are we sure this isn't a film plot? Or a book?

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