Dh left me in July: emotional affair, blamed me for basically everything that ever happenend in his life etc. It might just be the first Christmas without him but I am still really struggling. Have been thinking about it non-stop the last couple of days, been teary. Shouldn't I be further on by now? Its been almost 6 months.
I have been trying to tell myself 'stop' and try to focus on the here and now, but the thoughts keep creeping back in. Has anyone got any book recommendation with strategies etc to try and train myself to refocus my thoughts iykwim?
Thank you.
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How do I stop the thoughts - dh left in July
settingsails2017 · 26/12/2016 10:16
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