Because that's how I am beginning to feel now. After years of really minding and wanting things to be different.
This year we have only slept with each other 3 times. I have since permanently moved out of our bed because a. Being unwanted really takes its toll and b. H sometimes has rages which though short lived, do lasting damage because of the things he says to me or the amount of time he stops speaking to me for afterwards.
However I now feel that I really don't care about any of it anymore . Is this normal? Am scared that without my sense of outrage, I am going to see out my days in this loveless marriage, mainly because I feel really awful at the thought of splitting the family (3 dc).
I think it gets to the point that the fact that you never touch each other is just your normal and your status quo, and that in any case together you provide physical stability for your children.
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Anyone else just got used to the lack of affection and intimacy in a marriage / partnership?
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scaredoffallout · 23/12/2016 23:56
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