I threw my ex out in February after I discovered he was having an affair, since that time our DD has chosen not to have any contact with him.
He has behaved in the most appalling manner towards her, he and his lovely new woman booked themselves onto the same flights as my DD and I back in June, totally ruining our holiday, they have sent her vile text messages, he has broken into our home, refuses to pay child maintenance and his half of the mortgage. He even refused to allow DD to attend her own Grandfather's funeral. Recently he has blocked her from his phone! A cause of much distress to her as she wanted to tell him to back off harassing her.
Yesterday she reluctantly picked up a call from him, again he was trying to get her to meet up with him and the new partner, DD has told him she is happy to met him but not the partner, ex cannot and will not accept this.
Today she received her Xmas card from him, not a to my darling daughter card, oh no, but he signed it love from him and her. This really upset DD, almost as much as the enclosed Xmas present, a lottery scratch card. Then just to rub salt in the wounds ex and new partner both updated their Facebook profile pics, which show them all loved up, he text the picture to our daughter. DD is only 17, I just find their behaviour callous beyond belief, it is a form of mental abuse, this other woman has a daughter the same age, even she has sent abusive texts to my DD. What to do, I have a court order to prevent contact but the police just refuse to do anything about him! Am I overreacting?
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My daughter's Father is mentally abusing her, worse still his new partner is assisting him
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SWD75 · 23/12/2016 20:30
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