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How much sex?

(77 Posts)
Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 20:18:09

How much would you like and your partner?

How much do you get?


Twice a day (me), thrice a week (him).

Thrice a week.

KinkyAfro Fri 23-Dec-16 20:26:28

So the third time you don't want to?

user1473914879 Fri 23-Dec-16 20:27:05

What luxury ..

Bluntness100 Fri 23-Dec-16 20:28:43

How long have you been together? Twice a day is quite a lot and would indicate to me you either have an abnormally high sex drive, are needy and feel sex shows he wants you or are missing something in the relationship which stops you doing other things together.

peppatax Fri 23-Dec-16 20:29:32

Think you've misread that Kinky as there is a timeframe difference there!

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 20:29:39

Kinky no I want it twice a day

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 20:32:32

Bluntness a year, but yes my sex drive is high, I have never been matched really - one guy done it every time I wanted to (I didn't force it though) but he just went through the motions

MonkeyBrainsInPickle Fri 23-Dec-16 20:32:44

Three times a week is loads.

peppatax Fri 23-Dec-16 20:33:04

I'd happily go for twice a day too OP - can't explain why but just how it goes. When DP is around he happily joins in with that and I am fine without it when he is not around whole other thread

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 20:34:44

Monkey what?? Really??

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 20:37:04

Peppatax have you always been this way? Would you say we have a high sex drive?

MonkeyBrainsInPickle Fri 23-Dec-16 20:38:13

Yes, lots of couples have less sex the that. Surely how much you fancy it changes anyway, depending on how tired you are, what's going on in your life etc. I'm not sure how I'd find time for twice a day with DC and a job.

SleepingTiger Fri 23-Dec-16 20:40:39

Don't write a book OP
It would not be very exciting.

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 20:43:19

Sleeping why do you say that? If it was a sex book it would

dotdash Fri 23-Dec-16 20:47:58

Twice a year is ample.

BreatheDeep Fri 23-Dec-16 20:49:28

How do you have time for twice a day?!

foxesandtoadstools Fri 23-Dec-16 20:50:44

Twice a year?!?!


Forgettheworld Fri 23-Dec-16 20:50:59

I've been with my DP almost 3 years we have it about 3/4 times a week. I'd have it
a lot more but with a 4 year old DS and both working we don't get the chance.
Do you live together?

peppatax Fri 23-Dec-16 20:57:23

Twice a day? I'd say high - always had it too (the drive, not the activity) and in fact I've probably got more drive as I've got older.

Its easy really - once in the morning, once at bedtime or twice in one sitting if home alone wink

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 21:08:14

Peppatax we're on the same page!! That's it once when you wake, once before you sleep. More if there's energy!! I wouldn't knock back 4 times but life gets in the way of that amount most of the time so tried to be realistic. Been together a year.

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 21:10:40

Dotdash are you kidding me? Oh man maybe I'm suffering from some sex disorder!

peppatax Fri 23-Dec-16 21:14:25

Well, I don't personally see how people have time or the inclination to do other things daily but horses for courses I suppose! I'm very much a one man band though - if it's not my partner then I'm not interested.

Chokehold Fri 23-Dec-16 21:15:44

How long have you been together? Have you felt like that in every relationship?

TheNaze73 Fri 23-Dec-16 21:32:53

You aren't suffering from a sex disorder. Between 3-5 times per week for me, so kind of average

Cat2014 Fri 23-Dec-16 21:37:05

Twice to three times a day when we are together which is 3 days a weekblush
Been together 6 months

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