Needing some wisdom here. Am currently third trimester into a horrible pregnancy with a probably disabled child going in and out of hospital with my own medical problems, and suffering huge amounts of pain that can't be resolved until after the baby is born). Am depressed as hell and can't get any MH help until mid-January (staff shortages, waiting lists, seasonal emergencies). Am unemployed and just lost voluntary job due to all of the above issues. Am just stuck in bed, taking painkillers, crying.
All I want to do is scream at DH for the amount of time he spends with XW (DSCs are staying there for Christmas) and for the telling-off I get for using taxis and employing cleaners (ie as I cannot walk far or clean) whilst not earning (though he has just given one of the DSCs £7k for business start-up - totally without consulting me) and for his inability to feed me anything that isn't toast.
I know that IAmostlyBVU but I don't know how to stop and I am scared that I am destroying our marriage. What can I do to get through Christmas?
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Pregnant. Ill. Unemployed. Depressed. How to protect my relationship with DH?
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LauraTheCucumber · 23/12/2016 11:00
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