So MrGotAway has been back in touch.

[catinbooots]

It's been ten years. He is a proper player. I am in the middle of a horrendous divorce.

Please just tell me NO NO NO NO NO

[catinbooots]

lol double post

[Madbengalmum]

If you are free and single why not play him at his own game?

[catinbooots]

Yes he is free and single. He deffo won't be looking for anything.

I am a bit fragile at the moment. Couldn't take the heartbreak.

[Madbengalmum]

Then dont contact him.

[fallenempires]

You know what he's like so just steer clear.Or string him along to amuse us yourself.
What's he said?
Looks like he's all alone for Xmas....poor him

[Madbengalmum]

Cat, fallen and i have said basically the same thing, so i only see two options for you really.

[MatildaTheCat]

Protect yourself and do not get in touch or make yourself even remotely available to a player.

Seriously, are you looking to get hurt? Avoid. Avoid and avoid.

[catinbooots]

He has said he has been thinking about me for 10 years

He is in a new job in a new city and obvs feeling a bit lonely. I would have carved out my kidney for him a decade ago.

Just shit timing with the split from DH.

[fallenempires]

Like hell he has what utter shite.
Both of us know that if he had wanted to be with you over all those years then he would have moved heaven & earth to do so.
I guess the reason for the split was his cheating?

[TheNaze73]

Only you can decide what you do here.

He's bored & after a fuck & you know that.

[MrsGB2015]

Ruuunnnn! Run like the wind.

[fallenempires]

Eloquently put by TheNaze
Has he heard about your divorce? His type like to prey on vulnerable women trust me I'm divorced myself & found that it renewed a certain person's interest.

[JennyHolzersGhost]

NO NO NO NO NO

NO NO NO NO NO

NO NO NO NO NO

[lovelearning]

catinbooots He is a proper player.

[sometimesKit]

(Sung to tune of Glooooooooria Hosanna in Excelcis)

[catinbooots]

I actually fucking love you lot

[Heirhelp]

Definitely NO. The book it is called a break up 'cause it's broken might be helpful.

[Snowflake65]

No run away, block him, delete his number etc etc

[Bob19701]

Maybe look at it another way IF you can deal with it , play the player back and have some fun ...just don't got overly involved .

[fallenempires]

What's the plan now Cat ?

[WynterBlossom]

Don't reply, it's easy to have the intention of playing him at his own game but then developing feelings & getting your heart broken again.

[Trooperslane]

RUN AWWWWAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY
RUUUNNNNNNNNNNN FAAAAAAAAASSSSSTEEERRRRRRRRRRR

honestly, even if he wasn't a player, this is awful timing - don't hook up with anyone for any reason til your head is straighter.

Big hugs and please look after yourself. AND do not reply! Block block block

[HandyWoman]

Run run run run run away.... a very long way. Block. Delete. Have a lobotomy. If necessary assume a new identity.

Better call Saul.

[MercuryInRetrograde]

no no no no no

ESPECIALLY when you're fragile.