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So MrGotAway has been back in touch.

(61 Posts)
catinbooots Thu 22-Dec-16 16:53:56

It's been ten years. He is a proper player. I am in the middle of a horrendous divorce.

Please just tell me NO NO NO NO NO

catinbooots Thu 22-Dec-16 16:55:46

lol double post

Madbengalmum Thu 22-Dec-16 16:56:49

If you are free and single why not play him at his own game?

catinbooots Thu 22-Dec-16 16:58:25

Yes he is free and single. He deffo won't be looking for anything.

I am a bit fragile at the moment. Couldn't take the heartbreak.

Madbengalmum Thu 22-Dec-16 17:01:15

Then dont contact him.

fallenempires Thu 22-Dec-16 17:01:20

You know what he's like so just steer clear.Or string him along to amuse us yourself.
What's he said?
Looks like he's all alone for Xmas....poor him fgrin

Madbengalmum Thu 22-Dec-16 17:03:18

Cat, fallen and i have said basically the same thing, so i only see two options for you really.

MatildaTheCat Thu 22-Dec-16 17:11:28

Protect yourself and do not get in touch or make yourself even remotely available to a player.

Seriously, are you looking to get hurt? Avoid. Avoid and avoid.

catinbooots Thu 22-Dec-16 17:13:52

He has said he has been thinking about me for 10 years <cries>

He is in a new job in a new city and obvs feeling a bit lonely. I would have carved out my kidney for him a decade ago.

Just shit timing with the split from DH.

fallenempires Thu 22-Dec-16 17:18:28

Like hell he has what utter shite.fhmm
Both of us know that if he had wanted to be with you over all those years then he would have moved heaven & earth to do so.
I guess the reason for the split was his cheating?

TheNaze73 Thu 22-Dec-16 17:23:32

Only you can decide what you do here.

He's bored & after a fuck & you know that.

MrsGB2015 Thu 22-Dec-16 17:26:08

Ruuunnnn! Run like the wind.

fallenempires Thu 22-Dec-16 17:28:07

Eloquently put by TheNaze fgrin
Has he heard about your divorce? His type like to prey on vulnerable women trust me I'm divorced myself & found that it renewed a certain person's interest.

JennyHolzersGhost Thu 22-Dec-16 17:28:17

NO NO NO NO NO

NO NO NO NO NO

NO NO NO NO NO

lovelearning Thu 22-Dec-16 17:32:05

catinbooots He is a proper player.

sometimesKit Thu 22-Dec-16 17:37:37

<<Nooooonononononononononononononononononononoooo, he only wants to shag youuuu>>
(Sung to tune of Glooooooooria Hosanna in Excelcis)

catinbooots Thu 22-Dec-16 17:45:10

I actually fucking love you lot

Heirhelp Thu 22-Dec-16 17:47:05

Definitely NO. The book it is called a break up 'cause it's broken might be helpful.

Snowflake65 Thu 22-Dec-16 17:48:22

No run away, block him, delete his number etc etc

Bob19701 Thu 22-Dec-16 17:49:39

Maybe look at it another way IF you can deal with it , play the player back and have some fun ...just don't got overly involved .

fallenempires Thu 22-Dec-16 17:51:52

What's the plan now Cat ?

WynterBlossom Thu 22-Dec-16 18:16:42

Don't reply, it's easy to have the intention of playing him at his own game but then developing feelings & getting your heart broken again.

Usernamealreadyexists Thu 22-Dec-16 18:31:42

Are you tempted and have you thought about him for the past decade??

Trooperslane Thu 22-Dec-16 18:35:42

RUN AWWWWAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY
RUUUNNNNNNNNNNN FAAAAAAAAASSSSSTEEERRRRRRRRRRR

honestly, even if he wasn't a player, this is awful timing - don't hook up with anyone for any reason til your head is straighter.

Big hugs and please look after yourself. AND do not reply! Block block block

HandyWoman Thu 22-Dec-16 18:49:39

Run run run run run away.... a very long way. Block. Delete. Have a lobotomy. If necessary assume a new identity.

Better call Saul.

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