Long time lurker but finally posting for some much needed advice/kick up the bum.
Initially met A 6 years ago when he chatted me up on a night out and completely out of character I gave him my number. We spoke for a little while but then lost contact. Fast forward 4 years later and we're back in touch and it's like love at first sight all over again. Lust, love, romance, and hostile insecure arguments. He cheated on me. More than once. After 18 months I finally ended it. Picked myself back up, met someone else and am now happily married. ExBF used to contact me during engagement period but stopped when I actually got married. 4 months in to my marriage he messaged me, and surprise surprise I messaged back and we have since met up a few times. He says he loves me and couldn't understand his feelings towards me hence the cheating (textbook excuse I know!) I know what I am doing is wrong but I can't seem to stay away and it's driving me crazy.
On the other side - I love my husband and he is literally the best person ever. Aside from a few petty arguments he literally is the nicest and most kindest person I could ever have met. But he's just not exBF.
Please can someone help me make sense of what's going on in my head.
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shesaidhello1 · 22/12/2016 13:12
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