My ex called me. I saw it but didn't answer as I didn't know what to do. I was just surprised that he even still had my number and would call. It's been 5 months NC apart from a couple of emails literally just about mundane essential practical stuff which I had to reply to but no other conversation/contact in at least 4 months anyway. And then a couple of days ago he calls completely out of the blue. It was the middle of the day on a weekday.
I'm really curious about why he called. But I don't know if I should send him a text or not. He hasn't called again and I'm kinda hoping he will just so I can find out. I hope he's ok as I do still care about him and I've been tempted to text him. But I'm scared to.
What is the etiquette here? I don't want to be rude or upset him...But obviously it's strange because he's my ex. How long would someone usually wait to try calling again if they were going to at all/still wanted to? And how long can I leave it before texting him and should I contact him back at all?
I mean he could just message me or try again but he hasn't. But maybe he is annoyed that I didn't contact him back.
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What should I do. Unexpected call.
sleepingkoala · 20/12/2016 15:37
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