DP and I together 5 years. He has been living with me practically for all this time, sorting out his divorce etc etc, but never officially living together. To cut a very long story short, his ex has finally moved out of the marital home and has it back - he had talked about getting the house back but always said he would rent it out or sell, and we would set up home together properly. Now he has backtracked and is saying he wants somewhere where his children can come (16 and 19) which I totally understand, and he's spending more time at his house 20 miles away than with me. He insists he loves me and wants a future together, but I'm feeling very let down and hurting a lot seeing him buying things for his house and no interest in my little flat.
Where do I go from here? Christmas is going to be a nightmare. He hasn't organised anything, hasn't asked me what I'm doing, and I'm absolutely not chasing him around. He also still has a lot of his things at mine which he seems reluctant to take.
I would really appreciate your thoughts
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AIBU to be sad and disappointed?
Norky1975 · 17/12/2016 09:20
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