Ive been with my partner one and have a one and half year old DD. Thing is he has been emotionally abusive, controlling and manipulating and has basically given me a life of hell.i wasent allowed a fb account in case any guys tried to talk to me, i wasent allowed to any pubs. I had to basically live like a recluse im 27 now and feel like lost the majority of my 20s too scared to offend him. He told me to.leave him 2 months ago.becuaee he wasent earning enouhh money and couldnt financially support me and baby. I was devastated and come to live at my mums.
Since ive been here i feel so relaxrd and not on tenterhooks i feel happy and not nervous. So i told jim yday i want to break up with him completley. And now i feel absolutley awful. Ive never seen him upset and he has cried and cried all day and said he woild go to a doctor and a counsellor and sort his insecurities out. Thig is i cant see him massivley changing. I am really shocked how much better i feel on my own. Hes told me his heart is shattered into loads of places, he wanted to marry me abd he is not going to take no for an answer and keep fighting for me.
I feel so so guilty ive done this to him and i dont know what to say or do.
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louisejanep · 15/12/2016 22:33
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