I posted on here a few days ago because I wanted a hand-hold and some encouragement to get me to ditch my useless "ex" who never really committed to me anyway, and had forgotten my birthday for the third time. Everyone was lovely about it.
I have a different dilemma, potentially something happier, today. I was hoping wiser minds than mine might be able to offer guidance.
I'm a med student in my first year, despite being in my late 20s. As my exams are coming up soon, I signed up for a peer-teaching session, and was put into a group with this bloke. He's in the year above, mid 20s (couple of years younger). He gave me a lot of personal attention/tuition during the session, and his colleague taught the two other people in our little group. At the end, he mentioned some books he had on a topic I find really interesting, and asked for my email so he could send me the names of them.
I got an email a few days later with the book titles, and I sent something breezy back. He suggested we meet up before the next revision class so he could show me the books, and gave me his number.
So I met him today. I had lessons all day so he waited around 'til I finished at about 4, though I think he might have been studying, and we went over the books. I definitely felt some chemistry but I've been tragically wrong in the past about guys, and been rejected as "just friends", so I don't want to get the wrong idea here. We mainly chatted about other things, he mentioned an ex-girlfriend, we talked about where we were from, hobbies, interests. One red flag I guess is that he mentioned that his relationship wasn't a particularly good experience (with no real detail as to why).
I feel quite intimidated because he's ridiculously clever, is fluent in several languages, is one of the top students in his year, and also seems to be a nice person. So, I keep telling myself there's no way he could be interested in me. We have some common interests, as we both like outdoorsy activities.
When we said goodbye, he kind of touched my shoulder (friendly?) and said if I need any help with my studies to just text and he'll brush up on the topic and then meet to teach it to me.
Does this have potential? Is he just being kind to a new student? Any ideas?
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PeteSwotatoes · 29/11/2016 21:40
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