How do you move on without any closure? When you're just given the silent treatment. 3 years, he's done this once before, just changed and stopped replying to messages/seeing me. It hurt so bad and when he reappeared I just fell back in to his arms. The last few weeks I sensed it was coming and begged for him to just tell me what's what this time, he hasn't. I've given up and do not want to cave when he gets back in touch, which he will, eventually. He's the only person I've properly loved, he's completely changed me, knocked all my confidence. I do not want to put myself in this position again so any advice on how to just accept that the closure I always wanted is never going to happen. I don't like having all the unanswered questions playing on my mind everyday. I feel a lot stronger than the last time but not strong enough to just want to run back when he decides he wants some attention again. I know how pathetic i sound..
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