I need advice as my marriage is quite difficult at the moment.
Been married 7 years, DS is nearly 4. I recently posted about DH telling me he has taken up a new hobby, was a bit of a row as he was going to effectively be out of the house every other Sunday (he works Saturday) to do the hobby. We reached a compromise and he will now do it once a month.
Today he informed me via text when I was trying to arrange some Xmas plans for us and outperform friends that he has 3 separate nights out planned with work/football club etc.
I am upset, why am I just informed of these plans? Surely we should be discussing these things as a couple, to ensure we haven't double booked etc.
If I then say you haven't even told me about these plans, he says "I think you are making a big deal out of it". And makes me seem controlling, am I?
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Is DH selfish or do I am I being controlling?
Mrstumbletap · 16/11/2016 13:37
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