Hello,
My partner has kept a distance from his mother for years and only see her maybe once ever other month for half an hour because if she doesn't get what she wants she takes it out on my partner dad either verbally or physical and tries to get my partner to pick sides. My partner had to grown up In this household where he witness where his mother lashing out and whenever anyone speaks to her about she says that's just the way she is. Me and my partner had a baby and she didn't like we wasn't doing everything the same way she had done, we didn't care as this was our baby and we will do what we believe is best. Since having the baby we have take a big step back and only see her when we have too as we don't want our child to be put in uncomfortable situation around her. Even when we do see her it has to be on her terms even though we a baby, so we have to try rearrange the babys routine. I know she wants to have a better relationships with us but I hate to be around this woman as she makes me feel anxious to be around even though she has never actually been aggressive to me or my partner and would kiss the ground my partner walks, my partner isn't bothered in making a better relationships with her. With Christmas coming up I'm getting anxious about when and how much she actually have to see her and what will she moan about, what would you do if you was in this situation?
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Mariegoodfellow87 · 15/11/2016 23:54
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