I am a long standing member, had a name change and made a new account with a new email.
I don't know what the fuck I'm doing with regards to my marriage to be honest. I need some advice!
Married 7 years, 2 kids aged 5 and 2. We both work full time in professional jobs. I can't make my mind up whether to leave my marriage or not. I don't get on with DH at all lately. Everything about him antagonises me but I'll break it down to the main issues:
He has no patience at all with my son,and speaks to him like crap. I feel like I've got to stick up for DS all the time and then get accused of undermining DH.
I don't fancy him. Why would I when he's a narky, joyless drain?
If I left him, he would make my life hard work with dealing with childrens arrangements etc.
I literally don't know what to do. 3 of my close friends have been literally left on their own with their kids and I've seen how hard it is. I don't know if I can do it? What if I throw it all away for a rut?
Like I said, I have no fucking idea. Help me.
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CathysGhost · 15/11/2016 19:13
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