Hello wise MN people,
Talk some sense into me!
I have had a couple of LTRs with EA men (inc my DC dad) & after a fair time of singleness decided to do OLD (ok cupid).
Met a guy, drank beer, had fun & we are now 5 dates in. I am almost LOOKING for something to be wrong with him. I'm enjoying the ride & we have loads in common & of course it's really early days but....
- We had the 'are you dating anyone else' chat & he said he hasn't looked at any dating sites in weeks yet when he was in the shower a POF thing popped up on his phone (I have not deleted my profile though i haven't looked at any messages since I met him & have deleted the ok cupid app.
- He has mentioned that he uses drugs recreationally sometimes at music festivals.
- He has hinted that he used to drink loads & 'was a nightmare' when he was 20/25. He is now early 40s.
I like him & I am not jumping into anything. Just wondered if any of these things would make you go
By the way, 2 and 3 used to apply to me as well. Am I being OTT or would you be put off by these things?