At what point do you say you enough is enough? When do you decide it's the final straw? When you do walk away, and how?
Dh is alright. Our marriage is ok. It's not perfect but we are mostly happy. I don't love him anymore but I don't dislike him. We're ok. It's just we are chalk and cheese, completely. And he does things and acts certain ways that I don't agree with, and I'm sure he feels the same way about me. For example, this morning the dc's have all their toys out. It's Saturday morning and they are playing. Dh has spent the last 2 hours shouting at them to tidy it up. I think they should be allowed to play and tidy before we go out later on. He hates mess so wants it tidy now yet won't ever tidy up his own fucking shit. It's minor yes, but it breaks my heart watching my kids not have the carefree and fun childhood I want them to have. It's the same about loads of other things. All minor things, nothing major. But minor things add up.
At what point do you say "I don't want to live like this anymore" and actually act on it. I don't want to break up the kids home over something petty.
Sorry, just need a rant this morning
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waitingforthelaststraw · 12/11/2016 11:47
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