I haven't seen my mother for a few years. She is a narcissist, I feel safer not seeing her and my younger dc are safer away from her as she can't be trusted. I do send her a birthday card and Mother's Day card, and flowers at Christmas and birthday. Each time one of those occasions approaches I become anxious and consider not sending anything, but then I always do. I just don't know if I'd be better cutting all contact, completely. I should mention that she sends me a card and flowers for my birthday and Christmas, and when they arrive I feel so unwell that I have to throw them away immediately. I know it sounds irrational, but the sight of things from her makes me panic.
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Does no contact with parent have to mean no contact at all?
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Cloudylemons · 09/11/2016 16:32
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