Hello,
A bit of background. 9 months ago a guy asked me out, and we went out a few times, but I didn't feel ready so I asked to be just friends. We kept meeting up and a few months later things started to develop, mosttly snogging and cuddling up on the sofa etc.
But I decided I wasnt feelling it and said we should be friends again, because I wasn't ready for romance yet. Fast forward to now, and I have met someone and he really turns me on, and we have got together. I didn't tell my friend for some time, but I finally bit the bullet and did so last night - I felt awful. He was clearly devastated and had been hoping we would get back together. He said he can't be friends with me anymore, because his feelings would prevent him ever meeting someone else and won't respond to any of my texts.
He really means a lot to me though, and I have been crying most evenings. I can't imagine not having him as a friend. What can I do?
Kate
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
My friend won't speak to me
21 replies
user1478644640 · 08/11/2016 22:43
OP posts:
DixieWishbone ·
09/11/2016 04:15
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.