I'm clearly being reasonable just from the thread title.
I've long since given up on actually asking DH to help with anything that requires some thought process or ownership. If in times of need I've asked him to help me out, he cannot fathom what the hell to do or possibly even why I'm asking. So I've taken to asking him to do particular things so he can't play dumb.
At the moment DD5 and DS4 are really playing us up. They do not listen to anything unless they're hollered at. It's a rut we got stuck in and I'm trying to claw out of. But DH won't do anything that is suggested regarding trying to break out of the shouting cycle. So I asked him today instead to come up with a punishment for when the DCs misbehave that comes from him and he will enforce.
What has he done? He's tried to arrange some counselling sessions for us. He says he got confused about what I meant when I asked him to do something very specific. If he has to do anything more than say 'there there dear' he's not fricking interested.
He's apparently on his way home to talk now. I don't want to talk. I've talked till I'm blue in the face time and time again. Please help me not kill him. Or help me kill him and give me ways to get away with it.
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MagikarpetRide · 07/11/2016 15:49
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