I've name changed for this as its sensitive and DH has been known to hunt out posts I've made on here.
He's suspended from work: the likely outcome is dismissal and possibly not being able to work in this field again.
So, he's at home all the time.
He's depressed. Stays up until two/three in the morning, watching films and TV box sets loudly. Wants sex, a lot (apparently it's a comfort) but he comes crashing into bed at 3 am and I don't feel like it then. Drinking too much, doing stupid stuff like going outside for a smoke and then leaving the door open and then a child wakes up at 4 am cold and crying.
I'm working after a fashion (supply teaching) so you can imagine what mornings are like after these unsettled nights. I don't really like leaving the children with him and twice our school aged child has missed school because of DH not getting everybody out on time.
I'm so sympathetic but I feel like shaking him as well! What can I do!
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DH is stressed and I'm exhausted
saturdaygrey · 05/11/2016 08:35
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