we have a dc age 2.5, together 10yrs, lived together 5-6yrs. i have voiced to dp that i wanted two kids close together in age ideally before i was 30. dc was a surprise pregnancy but welcomed & very loved. anytime i have tried to talk to him about a second dc his response is always "wait and see". if i bring it up again its the same response. ive been on the pill 2.5yrs & told him i wasnt going to take it anymore due to acne & headaches and would like it out of my system, we also agreed that it could take a while but we would not be preventing nature but not actively trying either. all well and good til i try to be nice and iniate intimacey and immediately get shot down because im not covered by the pill & only showing interest because i want a baby. i tried to explain to him that was not my intention but its falling on deaf ears. he thinks that because i rarely initiate before then if i try now then i have an alterior motive. i rarely initiate as i do everything for our dc, keep the house & work 4 days a week. all he does is work 5 days & lay about with his ps4 or phone, doing very little to help me or dc. im debating moving home to my parents so when he comes home tomorrow we are gone & maybe give him the wake up call to appreciate us more because talking means nothing or solves anything. dont know what to do. if i do leave then he might be happy enough and then id have to come crawling back as he's very good at the silent treatment/huffing.
sorry for the long post
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wanting a second child but partner going back on his word
emma567 · 03/11/2016 23:19
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