I've been texting someone for about three months who I 'met' online but haven't met him yet in person because my circumstances make it difficult (I separated from my partner earlier this year but for financial reasons haven't been able to move out yet). He says he's happy to wait. I really like him as far as it's possible to tell without having seen him in person but I feel he's been giving me mixed signals.
He's very sporadic about getting in touch - I would say it's about once a week, which is fair enough as we're not able to meet in person yet, but if I do text him I get a rather perfunctory message back maybe a day later. I asked him about this and he said it was because he's just started a new job and is doing very long (70 hour) weeks. I'm still not convinced it's that hard to send a pleasant message back though, it's not like I'm constantly messaging him.
Anyway we've strayed into sexting territory which I know is silly, but I am feeling a bit miffed as I messaged him on Wednesday and we had a bit of sexual chat but he kind of cut it short and I haven't heard from him since. So I feel a bit stupid really. He was off work last week so the long hours excuse doesn't work, and he may have actually been busy when I texted but I thought he'd get back to me later the same day and I'm actually offended he hasn't bothered to get in touch since. Is this normal dating behaviour? My judgment is a bit clouded because of the fact we haven't met up, I don't feel I should have any expectations but on the other hand this feels a bit rude, or at least definitely as if he doesn't like me that much. Should I just move on? Or should I not be taking it so seriously at this stage?
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He doesn't actually like me does he?
MagicSocks · 01/11/2016 14:53
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