So my mum ringing me saying it's doing her head in not seeing me and my kids yet she won't get on a fucking bus and visit us. She expects my DH to go pick her up and bring her over because he drives and she doesn't. If my DH can't bring her due to work and petrol costs she will ask my uncle as he drives but he's it around much as news flash he has his own life but she moans she doesn't see us yet can't be arsed to get a bus!!
My DH probably could pick her up before he goes to work but he says why should we make all the effort and why should he spend his petrol picking her up when she could get a bus. Am I right? Arnt mothers supposed to make an effort???? She waits until she can get a lift to see her grandchildren or expects us to go to hers!!! Just to point out she's in her 40s, isn't disabled or anything so she's quite capable of making an effort. I have kept my distance from her to be honest because of her lack of effort.
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Am I wrong to be angry at my mum
sammyjayneex · 26/10/2016 13:23
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