Hi all,
Keen to hear other's experiences. I have a new DP (6 months) and he is great. I finally feel like I have the person I deserve after some crappy relationships. I'm pretty sure what I am feeling for him is love, but I'm not sure.
He makes me feel cared for, does so much for me and is very active in his affections, but is not particularly wordy. He (late 30s) says he has only said "I love you" once and meant it in his life.
I want to say it all the time! I am scared that he won't say it back if I do and that makes me feel anxious. I am not sure why the words are so important....his actions are far and above better than any relationship I have had before where the words were said.
I feel a bit silly and childish - but am keen to hear other people's experiences. How did you know? When did you say it? Does anyone else inexplicably care more about the words than the behaviour?
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How important and how soon is "I love you"?
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whendoes · 24/10/2016 11:29
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