Need advice , signed up to dating site but if I'm honest don't know what the rules are . Single for 4 years and am bored of my own company .
Received lots of messages , shocked if I'm honest , do you reply to all or some ? What's the done thing .
I only messaged one person , he asked to meet after a week then let me down on the day. Supposed to meet yesterday then all day he never mentioned it so neither did I . Gutted if I'm honest .
He then said he is talking to lots of women and likes to meet everyone he talks to . Is this how it works ?
Do you juggle lots of conversations then see how it goes ?
I'm so naive , got excited and carried away by someone wanting to see me , I was silly to think it would happen . Ran out and got new jeans and boots , my pride is hurt that he didn't follow through with his suggestion to meet . I just deleted my profile so when he went back on he will see I've just disappeared .
I realise that was silly , but I got carried away with the constant messages thinking he was keen , felt let down so walked away .
I need the rules or at least the guidelines that others use . I suppose I want to be in control rather than sitting waiting on messages and being grateful for any flicker of hope .
Please help
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