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late night texts

(26 Posts)
stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 07:48:04

home from holiday,partner texting someone at 2am but i am nagging by asking who.who would you text at 2am?who would care he was home except me?

CaoNiMao Sun 23-Oct-16 08:00:14

I don't think "nagging" is the right word for it. You're quite reasonably asking your partner a question that he needs to answer.

Doesn't sound like the best of relationships. How long have you been together?

Naicehamshop Sun 23-Oct-16 08:07:30

The fact that he is refusing to tell you is a definite worry. I think you should calmly insist on knowing.

pinkandstripey Sun 23-Oct-16 08:29:48

Sometimes my parents tell me to text them whatever time (and they'll pick it up in the morning). Is that a possibility?

pinkandstripey Sun 23-Oct-16 08:30:30

But you should definitely ask him. Have you got any reason to be suspicious?

WingsofNylon Sun 23-Oct-16 08:54:24

It isn't the texting that is odd but the not telling you.

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:17

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:17

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:17

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:21

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:21

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:22

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:22

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:22

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:12:22

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 09:54:29

and now he wont see me or talk to me

AyeAmarok Sun 23-Oct-16 10:04:34

What age is he?

grin

mycatstares Sun 23-Oct-16 10:09:14

ayegringringrin

stupid1 Sun 23-Oct-16 11:11:02

56

Forgettheworld Sun 23-Oct-16 11:51:53

He's obviously hiding something. Have you asked to look at the message?

TheNaze73 Sun 23-Oct-16 12:10:05

I'm struggling with how old he is?

CalleighDoodle Sun 23-Oct-16 12:14:41

It looks like youve caught him texting ow and he has gone into self preservation
Ode to avoid the conversation.

AnyFucker Sun 23-Oct-16 12:40:16

That sounds dodgy. Does he have any form for playing around with other women ?

leaveittothediva Sun 23-Oct-16 12:47:53

Yes, definitely strange. Is anything else happening that would suggest he's letting another woman know he's back. I mean did he text a lot while on holiday.

pocketsaviour Sun 23-Oct-16 12:47:59

Were you on holiday together, or was he on a "lads" affair?

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