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late night texts

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 07:48

home from holiday,partner texting someone at 2am but i am nagging by asking who.who would you text at 2am?who would care he was home except me?

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CaoNiMao · 23/10/2016 08:00

I don't think "nagging" is the right word for it. You're quite reasonably asking your partner a question that he needs to answer.

Doesn't sound like the best of relationships. How long have you been together?

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Naicehamshop · 23/10/2016 08:07

The fact that he is refusing to tell you is a definite worry. I think you should calmly insist on knowing.

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pinkandstripey · 23/10/2016 08:29

Sometimes my parents tell me to text them whatever time (and they'll pick it up in the morning). Is that a possibility?

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pinkandstripey · 23/10/2016 08:30

But you should definitely ask him. Have you got any reason to be suspicious?

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WingsofNylon · 23/10/2016 08:54

It isn't the texting that is odd but the not telling you.

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:12

hes 56 ffs,definately not his mum,when i ask he says absolutely nithing,judt looks at me

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 09:54

and now he wont see me or talk to me

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AyeAmarok · 23/10/2016 10:04

What age is he?

Grin

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mycatstares · 23/10/2016 10:09

ayeGrinGrinGrin

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stupid1 · 23/10/2016 11:11

56

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Forgettheworld · 23/10/2016 11:51

He's obviously hiding something. Have you asked to look at the message?

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TheNaze73 · 23/10/2016 12:10

I'm struggling with how old he is?

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CalleighDoodle · 23/10/2016 12:14

It looks like youve caught him texting ow and he has gone into self preservation
Ode to avoid the conversation.

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AnyFucker · 23/10/2016 12:40

That sounds dodgy. Does he have any form for playing around with other women ?

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leaveittothediva · 23/10/2016 12:47

Yes, definitely strange. Is anything else happening that would suggest he's letting another woman know he's back. I mean did he text a lot while on holiday.

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pocketsaviour · 23/10/2016 12:47

Were you on holiday together, or was he on a "lads" affair?

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