Im going to tell you the whole story and then decide what you would do please
Been a single mum for ten years raised my son and daughter completly alone no support at all , no family , no ex support ( I left a horrible abusive marriage of which my family thought I should hv kept quiet) . Anyways it's been hard but I've managed kept my home and done a degree . Over a year ago I met someone , a lovely kind utterly supportive man who I decided to buy a house with ( sell mine , protect my money and him take a mortgage for the rest) .
However I'm hving doubts ; should my name be on the extra mortgage ( it means my names on a 140000 mortgage as opposed to mine 40000 mortgage ? He also has teenage sons one of whom
Is very miserable and negative and argues ( I don't hv that in my life now , my kids are manageable ) . He's a nice kind loving man who I feel safe with but what would you do ? Part of me is worried im making a mistake because I'm sick of no support , loneliness and it being bloody hard to work properly with childcare etc
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Molly333 · 22/10/2016 21:09
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