DS is 8.5 months and I haven't found it easy. Baby stage is so boring and restrictive. Things are improving there though. The issue is with my relationship with DH.
He is amazing. Really loving and caring, hands on with DS etc. He really cares about me and organises treats like spa days with my friends etc as he knows I struggle. I couldn't ask for a better person to be with.
The issue is with me and the fact that I don't feel any connection anymore. I just feel numb about it all.
I do feel as though I have lost my identity being on mat leave, my whole life if about DS so have nothing to talk to DH about. I am going back to work on Monday part time so hopefully that will help.
We have found a baby sitter now and plan to go out as a couple every fortnight or so. Is there anything else we can do to bring back the spark?
I really really want to make this work because he is such a good man.
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Famalam13 · 19/10/2016 17:11
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