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Too late to report..what's the point?...or move on?

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onanotherday · 19/10/2016 11:33

Ok am steaming mad at the moment having been told by sbxh that he has others to pay as well as me and kids. So will just pay under half what he should
... and has been out of work/country for last 9 months and paid nothing. Since he left 4 years ago dribs and drabs..mainly due to his MH. But I can't take this much more...
I know i have to suck it up. Hes walked away from huge debt...put all in my name as he was a student....left us really strughling and i have no family to speak of or credit to help. But what has begun to hit home is the abuse we want through. I know I should move on but it's times like this it hurts the most!!
Now i see that towards the end he was abusive and has since been diagniosed with personality disorder and bipolar. .
Sorry for rant but watching kids sleeping on matresses on cold concert floors is hard especially after a 20 year marriage. I'm so very greatful for our little council house but feel vengeful at times...reporting the abuse will help no on now....thanks for listening. ...will plod on😕

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whattodowiththepoo · 19/10/2016 12:01

On another day this anger fear pain and suffering won't even exist because you will have your beautiful children and a life you have worked incredibly hard to earn.

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ikeawrappingpaper · 19/10/2016 12:03

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hellsbellsmelons · 19/10/2016 14:31

I think it depends on the abuse as well.
Have you checked out freecycle in your local area or freebay (on facebook)?
I often give away old furniture on there and there's often stuff that is good that might be OK for you?

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