Please do not judge me because I absolutely hate myself at the moment, I had an affair 8 years ago, with someone I know, i eneded after 3 weeks, got counselling, and have spent the last 8 years committed to my marriage, in between bouts of anxiety and depression caused my my guilt, But a year ago someone confronted me that they knew, whilst they have said they will tell no one, im scared they will, we live in a small town, im now so scared my husband and friends will hear about this, I have ruined my life my husbands (although he doesn't know) my reputation, everything. I don't know what im asking, i know i should confess, I know no good will come of confessing, it will kill my husband, im in such a state.please has anyone ever been in this situation?
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