Bit of background....husband lives and works in a different country to me. We are not in the UK. I don't see him a lot and when I do, I travel as he works.
Where I live, although I am rather nomadic, we have a dear friend whose husband died last year. We were great friends of theirs and still with her. She's ex flight staff and we decided a good few months ago that she and I would go away( long haul) over the period of the anniversary of her husband's death. My husband was and still is in agreement with this. However, my husband has now got a business trip to the same city and we will overlap by about four days. He has naturally said that I will stay with him.
I feel awkward about this as I am effectively having a cheap holiday with my friend due to her concessions and we will be sharing a room and I will be paying half. It was also planned so that she wouldn't be home over the anniversary of her husband's death but I also feel that I should be with my husband. I suppose I could do half half, but although she's extremely capable and I am sure would understand, I am feeling as though it could appear I'm taking the piss.
Any help would be great...thanks.
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Rugbycomet · 17/10/2016 18:52
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