I think I need to vent as I am half feeling defensive and half embarrassed...
Ex MIL is very gregarious and we have a good relationship. She can be quite tactless but is a good person, and we have a strong history and get on well. (She's not a formal MIL, but I was with her son for over ten years.)
Anyway... she keeps posting things on FB by groups like Britain First or general posts about how Islam is taking over the country and stories about refugees sexually assaulting women. She isn't someone I would think of as especially ignorant or racist normally but I do think she might be easily led and not question things.
Two days ago we had a story about how a school failed its OFSTED inspection because 'it was too white' (a quick Google showed this was a massively twisted version of something) followed by another about Angela Merkel being the 'traitor of europe.' So I texted her, I deliberately didn't do it via FB so someone could see, and asked her what on earth made her think BF was worth listening to and whether she was also considering joining the Nazi party while she was at it.
Bear in mind that she's not someone who's normally easily offended, she's often blunt and jokingly offensive to me too. But, I agree that perhaps the Nazi comment might have been a step to far.
Anyway, she has called my ex and has been apparently 'crying and humiliated' and I am both embarrassed and also wanting to stand my ground - these posts are ignorant and I find it quite frightening when someone I consider reasonably well educated spouts them as fact.
Oh, and she's not answering my calls, hence my venting on MN!
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I've cocked up with ex MIL over Britain First - oops!
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Jemimapyjamas · 15/10/2016 22:04
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