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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

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I've left again

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Aveiam · 14/10/2016 21:30

I have left him, he hurt me badly and I have come to a hotel and I just feel sick, I'm scared and alone, please can someone talk to me

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BantyCustards · 14/10/2016 21:32

Hi there.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

Have you had medical attention? Called the police?

AnyFucker · 14/10/2016 21:34

How has he hurt you ?

Stay safe. Contact a friend or your family and let someone (not him) look after you

theansweris42 · 14/10/2016 21:34

Hello aveiam are you physically OK?
You're not alone, people are here for you.
Is the hotel OK? Are you comfortable there for now?

Costacoffeeplease · 14/10/2016 21:40

Are you ok? Do you need medical attention?

Daffodils8 · 14/10/2016 21:46

Thinking about you. We are here

ALaughAMinute · 14/10/2016 22:10

Hope you're okay OP.

We're here if you want to talk to us.

NorksAreMessy · 14/10/2016 22:11

Keep talking, we will help you

maras2 · 14/10/2016 22:11

I'm here until 2 o'clock.Keep posting.You're never alone with Mumsnet.

BifsWif · 14/10/2016 22:12

We're all here.

Are you physically hurt? Are you safe?

Mishaps · 14/10/2016 22:22

Phone the Samaritans (116 123) - they are not just there for the suicidal, but for anyone in a jam of some sort or distressed. They will listen and will know where local refuges are if we are talking physical rather than emotional hurt. Don't sit there all on your own - speak to them - you need a live person to listen.

Daffodils8 · 15/10/2016 14:55

Thinking about you - hope you're okay x

IreallyKNOWiamright · 15/10/2016 15:07

Hope you are ok op.

ImperialBlether · 15/10/2016 15:25

OP, I've just read through your past threads and I'm very worried about you. Please can you tell us you're okay?

Aveiam · 15/10/2016 20:29

I had to come back. Thank you for messages

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Aveiam · 15/10/2016 20:42

He's gone out now

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HometoMandalay · 15/10/2016 22:05

Op are you on your own? Are you okay?

Aveiam · 16/10/2016 17:38

No he's at work now

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Aveiam · 16/10/2016 21:17

I don't know how to cope with this anymore

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ThatsNotMyToddler · 16/10/2016 21:35

What are you thinking OP?
Do you want to leave permanently?
People on here can help you but only you can make the decision.

Aveiam · 16/10/2016 21:36

I want to leave because if I don't I know he's going to end up killing me

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BeachysSandyFlipFlops · 16/10/2016 21:51

Would you go to the police?

Aveiam · 16/10/2016 21:52

I don't know where to start and I've been before about him he's been arrested before

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BeachysSandyFlipFlops · 16/10/2016 22:02

When is he at work until? Can you go the police tonight and try to get into a refuge?

ThatsNotMyToddler · 16/10/2016 22:32

If he's been arrested before do you have a specific number to call the police on? Or your local council may have a domestic violence number you can call. But be careful if you're doing Internet searches that you do private browsing so he can't see what you've been looking at. Or ring Women's Aid on 0808 2000 247.

While he's at work try to get a bag together with all your paperwork, passport etc and maybe a couple of changes of clothes so you're ready to go. Make sure you have somewhere safe to keep it though - you don't want him finding it.

Do you have friends or family nearby who would take you in if you left?

ALaughAMinute · 16/10/2016 22:44

Thatsnot has given you very good advice.

It sounds like you might be in serious danger. There are people out there that can help you. Please leave.

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