Hi all,
I am after some advice. I have a 9 year old son. I am separated from his father and we haven't had any contact for over 8 years. It was an abusive relationship and so I am glad to have him out of my life.
The only input he has had over the past 8 years has been paying child support through the csa. This was all organised by them - taking the money straight from his benefits and putting it into my account.
The csa has now all changed and I have recieved a letter from the child maintenance service to say he wants to make payments to my son. He has stated he wants to make direct payments which means we have to agree between us how these payments are going to be made. When I queried this with child maintenance as neither of us have any contact details of the other they said they will give him my bank details so he can pay directly into that.
I am not sure how comfortable I feel with that. Would he be able to do anything with my bank details? Could he trace me?
Any advice???
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CleverQuacks · 11/10/2016 13:10
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