I have struggled throughout my life with my sexuality I have had relationships with men and women and up until the point I met my DH I was very fluid. I love(d) the man I married he gave me a place to be and be loved and is still my very best friend. After a traumatic birth experience and the whole pressure of a small child my DH and I both suffered from depression and are now just friends...he has admitted that he can't view me sexually and we have both reconciled ourselves to love without sex(for now) I have found this hard but he is my friend and my match and I'm not unhappy.
Before I met my DH I had a stupidly rich sex life, I was a sub, I had open relationships etc... and now I am reflecting on the relationships I had with women - I always enjoyed them, the sex, the friendship, the intensity and I'm wondering whether I am prepared to accept my relationship (no sex for x years) because I don't really want to be with a man long-term...is this crazy? I am not about to March out the door but does anyone think this holds some traction? sorry
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bathmatandbin · 05/10/2016 00:48
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