DH has become really good friends with a woman at work that works for him. He started this job earlier this year and since then they've had to work pretty closely on a project. I don't have a problem with that but they go to the gym and / or coffee and / or lunch most days.
On top of that they're on WhatsApp mostly talking crap but quite often. I don't look at the messages but he doesn't hide them so there's nothing in there that he wouldn't necessarily want me to see it's just the frequency that makes me worried?
I do a hobby some weekends and over the past couple of months when I've done my hobby and he hasn't plans he's gone to her house which is about an hour away. She's married and her husband is there though so I can't exactly say I'm not happy about it, he says they all get on so I don't want to look paranoid.
Should I be worried or am I being paranoid? I don't think anything has happened but do you think it's normal to be in touch with a female friend / colleague this much?
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Paranoid or not?
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Newuser101 · 26/09/2016 22:48
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