DH works away a lot. It means that I work all day, pick the kids up then do all the childcare and household stuff.
He's been gone all week andhad a boys night away booked into the calendar this weekend. To be fair, he doesn't go out frequently, so I didn't feel I could ask him not to go. But we've just had out attic recarpeted and as the bedroom needs to be used today, it meant that yesterday was spent shifting furniture up stairs, on my own, in between feeding and entertaining the kids / getting them to clubs etc.
All of a sudden, I'm fucking FURIOUS. It's taken me back to the place I was in when the kids were small and I felt completely abandoned. When I hear people say things like, 'Oh, Tom takes the baby out on Saturdays so I can have time to myself,' I feel like screaming.
I've never had that. It's all just been me. I'm furious about things that happened years ago, all of a sudden. I'm furious that he left me in hospital years ago when I had a (non malign) breast lump removed, to go on his company leaving do. He wouldn't even wait to see me go into the operating theatre. I'm furious that he had to travel 3 weeks before I was due to give birth and we had to fly a friend over in case I would be left to give birth alone. There are so many things and all of a sudden I am so angry.
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ProjectGainsborough · 25/09/2016 10:18
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