Don't know why I'm posting to be honest. Can't be bothered to name change.
Have been internet dating for ages... Met a couple of nice men, had "relationships" now over past 2 months have had 3 Tinder dates all been disastrous.
I also had an obsession with a man I met and had 1 date with (yes 1 date) last summer, didn't help that he rang me up, texted, what sapped, sent pics etc... (Of his kids, where he'd been with them (holiday home etc). For some reason I like this man a lot (strong chemistry). I ignored him as of new year this year and it seemed to be going well until I found his number and just sent him a "hi" text and he replied out of the blue about a month later. Explained why he didn't date me properly originally but wanted to "stay in touch".
So we've been in touch over the summer, I've been away, planned to meet up then.... Nothing.
Why can't I get him out of my head?
I feel so 100% stupid about this. The tinder dates I've had "hope" about, as you do... But when they go pear shaped I'm back to Obession Man".
I'm probably venting here and also hungover. Which does not help obsession.
How do I get him out of my head? Should I stop Tinder? I feel like I'm destined to never meet someone but a few friends are like this with dating men who are my age.
Ps if I get abuse and judgment I'll hide the thread so please no nasty words.
Thanks.
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SuperFlyHigh · 24/09/2016 18:21
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