I split with my EXDP when DD was 18 months old. It was a horrendous time. He was addicted to Internet porn and had crossed the line into darker stuff. He had a break down and social services and the police were involved. He has had counselling and MH services involved and seems much better.
Doesn't change in my mind the risk factors though.
DD is now 5, she has supervised access with him. Recently she has become upset and this morning had a massive crying fit asking why daddy can't move back home. I have explained that although we both love her, we don't love each other anymore. She doesn't understand that and blames me I think for him not being here.
She says she is going to ask him when she sees him next if he loves me
I need some advice on how to explain things to her (age appropriate) and try to handle her distress in a way that makes her feel heard and understood. I don't want her to have false hope that we will be a family again because it will never happen.
Any advice??
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How to comfort/explain to DD why we do t live with daddy?
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Rarity75 · 24/09/2016 08:41
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