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I'm posting for advice about what to do about what appears (to me) to be child neglect.
A neighbour has 2 children around the ages of 13 and 11 (one male, one female). They are frequently left on their own during the evening and late into the night while their mum goes out drinking. She often comes home drunk and on one occasion she set her house on fire as she fell asleep and left the chip pan on. The fire was pretty serious and they all had to be treated in hospital for smoke inhalation.
Recently the children were out for the day; they returned home around 7pm and could not get into the house as their mum was out. After watching them for a couple of minutes, it was clear they didn't have a key so I went to get dressed (I'd just got out of the bath) with the intention of going over to see if they needed any help. I don't 'know' these children, I just see them in passing in the street but it worried me they couldn't get into their home.
I got dressed, went out and they weren't there. DH and I walked around the neighbourhood but we couldn't see them. The house remained in darkness all evening.
My parents were very abusive and neglectful and those children arriving home to a locked house triggered horrible memories of my own childhood, so I'm left wondering if it's me? Am I overreacting or is my neighbour neglecting her children?
I appreciate the mum needs a social life, but the children should be considered first and foremost (which is something my own parents never, ever did).
I'm not sure if this is relevant, but the boy (who's about 13) has Asperger's and I wonder if this would upset him more, to arrive home and not be able to get into his house?
I'd be grateful for any advice.
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juliettaa · 21/09/2016 16:42
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