I need some advice please.
This might sound a bit selfish, but my cleaner has just cancelled on me for today because of her abusive ex partner.
She is in bits, he found out that she is seeing a lovely normal guy, and smashed up the front of her car. Repairs will cost a lot, insurance will not cover it as she only has third party protection.
She refuses to involve the police in case he escalates his behaviour.
Understandably she is scared of him. She has no evidence that it was her ex who damaged her car, but he texted her, calling her a cheap whore who stayed in cheap hotels with ugly bald blokes! Her car was damaged whilst parked in a lay-by next to a hotel.
She is in her mid fifties and is a very brave and lovely lady, I have no idea what to suggest, if anything as I have no experience of this sort of narcissistic behaviour.
Any advice would be appreciated, even if it is to keep my beak out! I hate seeing her like this but have no idea how to help her.
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Hastalapasta · 21/09/2016 13:57
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