STBXH.
Moved out about a year ago. I hate him.
OK, compared to some he's not bad. He has the kids at the weekend and even though he is on benefits he will put money towards things for the kids (uniforms, trips ets)
But he is so unreliable. He drinks during the day. He smokes weed constantly (he has MH issues and this doesnt help...he says it does help)
I can't rely on him at all. He is selfish.
On the rare occasions I've asked him to help with school run things I've always ended up calling at 7.30 to wake him up and then when im stood waiting at 8 30am i call again and hes still in bed.
He tries it on with me sexually all the time. (Not in a million years mate). Makes lewd comments about me and my gf.
His personal hygiene is questionable. Hes always bringing wet washing round for me to dry.
He is racist. Homophobic (I'm in a gay relationship now). He makes fun of the disabled. He does it all as JOKES so it 'does nt really count'
I hate him. I wish i never had to set eyes on him again.
The frustration I feel when I ask for help with something and he fucks it up is immense. Then I'm nagging him.
I hoped this break up would lead to a friendship but my skin crawls when I'm aroubd him.
I just called him at 7 45 because ive pulled my back. I can't walk to school. I can barely move. Hes umming and ahhing about taking the kids to school and suggests the walk might fix it. He just doesnt want to get out of bed.
I call him back to say i will pay for a taxi and he says hes tired. I say 'fine!! I will hobble there in pain'
I expected him to call back and say he will come. But no. He went back to bed.
So i lost it at him. I do this 10 times a week. The school run. And he wont even do it in a taxi for me when im in pain?!!
I hate him. I don't know how I spent all those years with him. He sucked the life and joy from me :(
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HateHimReallyDo · 19/09/2016 08:42
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