I'm 31 (almost 32) I was with my ex 10 years. We married, had a DS who is now 4, but when DS was 1 we split up and are now divorced. I left him because I had completely fell out of love with him. I didn't fancy him I hated kissing him and most importantly he wasn't there for me when I was pregnant or after the birth. I remember being sat on my own in hospital with DS all the time while he was in bed all day at home. I had pre eclampsia so was still quite poorly after the birth. He would work all night then come home from work, go straight to bed and then out to the gym I had no support from him. I thought at the time the age of 28 I couldn't stay with him forever.
It was hard but I left, got my own place loved it, then met my now DP 5 month later. We have been together 2 and half year we are so In love, lived together since February. He is brilliant to DS (DS still sees his DF) DP only had one serious relationship, no DC, still lived at home when we met. From the beginning I have said and told DP that I would never marry again. Just the heartache, hardwork and expense of divorce plus I would feel embarrassed inviting the same family members to my wedding again. My DP agreed he wasn't bothered about marriage, that it was just a bit of paper to him but that he wanted children. I am actually coming off the pill after Xmas to TTC. Anyway lately DP keeps saying things like "we could do that at our wedding" or "we could do that when we're married." He also said he'd have a tattoo n his wedding finger instead of a ring when we get married. I just don't know what to think. I made it clear my intentions was to never marry again but what if he wants to now? I know I need to talk to him but I'm
Scared we won't be on the same page. Those who've married when they said they wouldn't or married again how did you feel about it?
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Would/have you married again?
Forgettheworld · 18/09/2016 20:27
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